A eulogy is a speech given at a funeral or memorial service praising the deceased. For some, giving a eulogy may be too painful, especially if the death was unexpected or the deceased is very young. In such cases, a family friend can give the eulogy instead of a family member, or the clergy can do so. Even if the clergy delivers the eulogy, he or she will ask you questions about the deceased prior to the funeral in order to offer a few reflections during the ceremony.

While a eulogy is not mandatory, it can be the most important part of the service. Many attendees may not know the deceased well, or may have only known the deceased for a portion of his or her life. A eulogy is an opportunity to share your love for the deceased and shed light on what he/she was like as a person. It also helps those who did know and love the deceased to come to grips with their grief.

A eulogy is not the same as an obituary. An obituary is a death notice that appears in newspapers and online. It’s strictly based on facts. A eulogy allows you to elaborate on the life and personality of the deceased.

For many, giving a eulogy is awkward and uncomfortable. You may find yourself rushing through your speech in an effort to get it over with. Fight this urge. Read your eulogy slowly, so that everyone can hear what you have to say. Read on for more tip on writing and giving a eulogy including a common outline structure in bulleted form.

Eulogy Speech Structure

There is no one formal structure for a eulogy. But certain guidelines can help if you’re uncertain where to begin. One way to approach it is to write a letter to the deceased. Even if you don’t actually use this format for delivery, it will still help you with the actual content. The key to an effective eulogy is to keep it personal, and writing it as a letter helps achieve that.

Other ways to spur memories include looking through old photo albums, reading letters or emails from the deceased, watching family videos or visiting the deceased’s Facebook or social media page. This may remind you of an event you had long forgotten or bring to mind acts of kindness you witnessed by the deceased. If you have the opportunity to visit the deceased’s home, memorabilia might also bring back fond memories.

When writing the eulogy, it’s best to keep anecdotes in chronological order. This will make it easier for you to organize your thoughts, and it will make it easier for funeral attendees to follow your speech.

We all want to feel that we have left a legacy here on earth. When talking about the deceased’s life, be sure to include any volunteer activities and community service. This will honor the deceased and also provide a measure of comfort for the mourners.

A eulogy does not have to be in the form of a speech. If you are musically inclined, sing a song or play a musical tribute to the deceased. If the deceased was religious, read a Bible passage or prayer. Was the deceased fond of literature? Read a poem or excerpt from a favorite author.

From his success on the sales floor of an automotive dealership  to becoming a veteran trainer and then the adoption of technology for Internet-based marketing, his career has evolved to deliver the skills and tools needed to help consumers. Richie Bello combined his automotive expertise with his robust desire to “take care of the customer first” to become an automotive influencer, published author, and renowned trainer.  Bello absorbed the wants and needs of consumers as he worked up the ladder of the automotive industry.

Over the thirty-five years of his career, he developed strong Internet marketing skills, leading him to developing software solutions that create ease for consumers, and helps dealers improve relationships with customers. Innovation drives success. And, for Bello, it’s in his DNA. took years to come to consumers and arrived in a timely manner, during the 2020 Pandemic. With over 6 million vehicles on the site, features that help consumers deliver, finance and warranty, Bello has met the retail digital age head on.

Bello also is founder of Richie Bello Institute of Leadership and Management, a 501C3 not for profit, dedicated to the recruitment, education and employment of veterans into the automotive industry. Visit


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